The city is busy, and people zip around with purpose. They know where they’re going, and they need to get there immediately and there is very little that can stop them and very little that can distract them. I recall the few moments when I was in a similar state of mind. With doctor’s appointments or work or some other facet of everyday life dominating my thoughts to the point where the city sweeps past me and I do not seem to notice it. Granted, this is a rare occurrence, but I cannot deny that I hope I am never in that state of mid. I hope I can always take my time. I hope I can always take in the city.
–
It’s Christmastime and I visit the Lougheed house with my friends because I’ve never been before. One of them drags their legs, the other is fascinated, and I try to maintain a childlike sense of wonder as we enter this historic landmark. Carols are played on a piano, warm cider is served, the house sparkles with spirit and we leave happy. We head to Galaxie Diner because I’ve never been before and we relish in our meal. One of my friends leaves, then the foot-dragger and I head to St. James Corner because I’ve never been before, and in one of my walks it stood out to me. And I wanted a beer. And we sit at a table meant for six and we partake in a conversation involving lycans and women and spaceships and women and the sun and women. And though the table was meant for six no one sat near us even as the bar filled. We are given a wide berth as though quarantined from the normal folk. We laugh hysterically like pirates.
–
I always try to over-celebrate my birthday so that I don’t really have to think about it. I call friends, I make multiple plans, I keep myself busy, and I make sure to leave the house. It’s summertime and I leave my house early in the morning and I head to that habitat for hipsters, Kensington. I get off the train I walk over to the Arthouse tattoo studio for my 10:30 appointment with Mr. Luke Van Wyk. It’s my first tattoo- it reads “Don’t Panic” on the inside of my left wrist. I walk around Kensington for a bit and I purchase a sweater from The Earth Store which only sells fair trade, 100% organic clothes. It shuts down a short 2 months later. I ride the train for a few stops into downtown and I meet my father and we have lunch together in the city at a Vietnamese place. I leave my father and ride the train a few stops further to Victoria Park/Stampede and I walk down 17th to meet my friend. He tells me he will be a while, so I decide to walk into St. Mary’s Cathedral. It’s totally empty. I sit in one of the pews and just take in the silence. Before I leave I say a small prayer of thanks and ask for guidance. I meet my friend and we head away from downtown and ride the train to Chinook in the south where we meet two more of my friends for a movie. After the movie we head to Schanks and I impress my friends with my poor skills at pool as we wait for another member of my party. He arrives and we head to the final destination of the day, the Kensington Pub. Same place where the day started, if you’re keeping track. We eat drink, and be all kinds of merry as the last member of our party joins us. We finally leave the pub and I insist that we climb this hill that’s not to far away. All six of us climb the hill and we get our view of the city. The lights sparkle and the people bustle and the cars zoom in and out. I make sure to do this every year. This past year I took my friends aside individually and told them why I appreciate them so much and why I’m excited for the future. They think I am hammered and that I make no sense. The city twinkles in the background.
–
It’s autumn and there’s a movie I want to see and it’s playing at one of the theaters downtown. I attend the movie with three friends, two of whom are a couple. We watch the film at the Uptown. We are four of only six people in the theater. The theater closes down within the next month. I am mesmerized by the film. Its about a man who falls in love with Paris- He calls it the hottest spot in the Universe. After the film I insist on walking the couple to their condo downtown. My friend and I then walk to the train but then decide that we would like a quick bite to eat. Apart from bars the only place open is a Tim Hortons. It’s the first time my friend has ever had cider and he rants and raves about how he can’t believe he’s been missing out on it. We walk towards 4th street station and we sit in that new park that opened by it. We sit in front of the long water wall and we talk about relationships and our future. We’ve spent a good 3 hours just talking and walking. We finally part company as the city continues to bustle.
–
I saw that movie again tonight. About the guy who falls in love with Paris.
Calgary is not the hottest spot in the Universe. It would be naive to think that. Am I fond of Calgary? I think I am. But I also feel that all cities hold potential. There’s still a lot for me to see. I’m a bit of a romantic. Just like the guy in the film. There’s a lot to see, and I might just fall in love with this place, or with any other place. As long as there’s life and lights and culture and character. And beer. And women.
![Calgary](https://calvindsilva.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/calgary.jpg?w=580&h=326)
Keep bustling, keep living and keep twinkling. And I shall make certain I always have time to take it all in.